Data: 2009-03-09 20:49:53
Temat: Re: Obiektyw a trwałość małżeństwa
Od: adamoxx1 <a...@p...onet.pl>
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adamoxx1 pisze:
> adamoxx1 pisze:
>> adamoxx1 pisze:
>>> cbnet pisze:
>>>> Masz jakąś obsesję na punkcie okłamywania?
>>>>
>>> Robisz cos takiego?
>>>
>>> http://eyesforlies.blogspot.com/2005/02/how-do-i-spo
t-liar.html
>>>
>> "Lies can take on many forms. Here are two forms I've identified:
>> eventful and hurtful.
>>
>> Eventful lies are when someone lies about things or events that do not
>> directly affect you. For instance, your friend tells you she is happy
>> when she is not. Or she tells you she is on a diet and losing lots of
>> weight, when you can clearly see with your own eyes that the opposite is
>> happening. With eventful lies, you are not the target of the lie. It may
>> make you feel upset, mad or uncomfortable because you feel as if you are
>> being played for dumb. However, if you think about it, these lies truly
>> have nothing to do with you---it's all about the liar.
>>
>> Why do people tell eventful lies? Plain and simply because they are
>> unable to cope with the truth. They don't even consider how you feel
>> when they lie---it's all about their inability to cope. The reality is
>> that their life is painful; instead of dealing with it, they try to bury
>> it---and the more they try to bury it, the more and more they lie. It's a
>> vicious cycle which only robs the liar of self-esteem and confidence.
>> It's sadly a self-defeating coping mechanism, and worse, it pervades our
>> society today. So many people are suffering the self-inflicted ills of
>> eventful lies. It's sad.
>>
>> Hurtful lies, however, are when someone sets out to tell you something
>> that (a) involves you; or (b) with the knowledge that saying such a lie
>> can and/or will hurt you. In this instance, your friend tells you she
>> stayed home last night sick when you know from another friend she
>> actually went out to a party. Hurtful lies are the lies that are not
>> easily forgotten. These are the lies that are destructive to any form of
>> relationship."
>>
>> Eventful to XL :D
>>
> aLe musze przyznac ze gosc jest pojetny. ciekawe sa te wpisy.
>
nie, to kobieta chyba.
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"Truth or happiness. Never both."
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