adamoxx1 pisze:
> cbnet pisze:
>> Masz jakąś obsesję na punkcie okłamywania?
>>
> Robisz cos takiego?
>
> http://eyesforlies.blogspot.com/2005/02/how-do-i-spo
t-liar.html
>
"Lies can take on many forms. Here are two forms I've identified:
eventful and hurtful.

Eventful lies are when someone lies about things or events that do not
directly affect you. For instance, your friend tells you she is happy
when she is not. Or she tells you she is on a diet and losing lots of
weight, when you can clearly see with your own eyes that the opposite is
happening. With eventful lies, you are not the target of the lie. It may
make you feel upset, mad or uncomfortable because you feel as if you are
being played for dumb. However, if you think about it, these lies truly
have nothing to do with you---it's all about the liar.

Why do people tell eventful lies? Plain and simply because they are
unable to cope with the truth. They don't even consider how you feel
when they lie---it's all about their inability to cope. The reality is
that their life is painful; instead of dealing with it, they try to bury
it---and the more they try to bury it, the more and more they lie. It's a
vicious cycle which only robs the liar of self-esteem and confidence.
It's sadly a self-defeating coping mechanism, and worse, it pervades our
society today. So many people are suffering the self-inflicted ills of
eventful lies. It's sad.

Hurtful lies, however, are when someone sets out to tell you something
that (a) involves you; or (b) with the knowledge that saying such a lie
can and/or will hurt you. In this instance, your friend tells you she
stayed home last night sick when you know from another friend she
actually went out to a party. Hurtful lies are the lies that are not
easily forgotten. These are the lies that are destructive to any form of
relationship."

Eventful to XL :D

--
"Truth or happiness. Never both."