adamoxx1 pisze:
> adamoxx1 pisze:
>> cbnet pisze:
>>> Masz jakąś obsesję na punkcie okłamywania?
>>>
>> Robisz cos takiego?
>>
>> http://eyesforlies.blogspot.com/2005/02/how-do-i-spo
t-liar.html
>>
> "Lies can take on many forms. Here are two forms I've identified:
> eventful and hurtful.
>
> Eventful lies are when someone lies about things or events that do not
> directly affect you. For instance, your friend tells you she is happy
> when she is not. Or she tells you she is on a diet and losing lots of
> weight, when you can clearly see with your own eyes that the opposite is
> happening. With eventful lies, you are not the target of the lie. It may
> make you feel upset, mad or uncomfortable because you feel as if you are
> being played for dumb. However, if you think about it, these lies truly
> have nothing to do with you---it's all about the liar.
>
> Why do people tell eventful lies? Plain and simply because they are
> unable to cope with the truth. They don't even consider how you feel
> when they lie---it's all about their inability to cope. The reality is
> that their life is painful; instead of dealing with it, they try to bury
> it---and the more they try to bury it, the more and more they lie. It's a
> vicious cycle which only robs the liar of self-esteem and confidence.
> It's sadly a self-defeating coping mechanism, and worse, it pervades our
> society today. So many people are suffering the self-inflicted ills of
> eventful lies. It's sad.
>
> Hurtful lies, however, are when someone sets out to tell you something
> that (a) involves you; or (b) with the knowledge that saying such a lie
> can and/or will hurt you. In this instance, your friend tells you she
> stayed home last night sick when you know from another friend she
> actually went out to a party. Hurtful lies are the lies that are not
> easily forgotten. These are the lies that are destructive to any form of
> relationship."
>
> Eventful to XL :D
>
aLe musze przyznac ze gosc jest pojetny. ciekawe sa te wpisy.

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"Truth or happiness. Never both."